Ramadhan datang lagi! Sejuk je kan kali ni... Alhamdulillah... =)
Target lgi kali ni nak pergi terawih setiap hari.
Aku tngh baca buku motivasi Secrets of Successful Teens yang ditulis oleh Adam Khoo dan Gary Lee.
Buku ni adik aku punya... Dia pun mula menunjukkan minat dalam buku-buku motivasi. And now I am his coach!
I joined SoftInnovation Sdn. Bhd., a software development company as a web designer under training for 10 weeks. Boss suka design pertama aku! It's a good start... this will be a great opportunity to brush up my web designing skills.
Today I am going to share about what I have learnt from this book...
I will be 20 this September. So I think it is still not late to read this book (written for teens) and apply it... =P
Secrets of Successful Teens by Adam Khoo and Gary Lee
Chapter 1: Unleashing the Winner Within
Bayangkan diri anda yang berjaya
Attend motivational programs and camps. Aktiviti sebegini dapat memotivasikan diri anda
Read motivational books to give ideas on how to be motivated and the ways to overcome the obstacles
Set your goals. Susah atau senang, even if it seem to be impossible to achieve, set your goals. Anda akan mencari jalan untuk mencapai matlamat anda
Describe obstacles as "challenges" instead of "problems"
Anggap setiap kegagalan sebagai pengalaman untuk dipelajari
Here's the tips on Goal Setting (yang diajar oleh abg Amirul)
Reference:
Secrets of Successful Teens by Adam Khoo and Gary Lee
Hari ni nak cite pasal cara mencari kelebihan atau kekuatan kita.
Ramai yang menganggap apa yang kita boleh buat adalah kelebihan dan apa yang kita tidak boleh buat adalah kekurangan.
Tanggapan ini sebenarnya salah kata Marcus Buckingham.
"A better definition of a strength is an activity that makes you feel strong. And a weakness is an activity that makes you feel weak. Even if you're good at it, if it drains you, that's a weakness"
- Marcus Buckingham
4 tanda kekuatan yang dikatakan oleh Buckingham ialah:
Success - Kejayaan
Kejayaan menunjukkan keberkesanan aktiviti yang anda lakukan
Instincts - Naluri
Ambil kesempatan atas perkara-perkara yang naluri anda harapkan
Growth - Perkembangan
Ilmu anda dalam perkara yang anda tumpukan akan berkembang
Needs - Keperluan
Ada perkara yang membuatkan anda letih tetapi ia memberi makna kepada anda
Setelah mengetahui kekuatan anda, tibalah masanya untuk mula bertindak.
Musim peperiksaan ni, ramai pula yang risau soalan exam susah...Kalau exam dah lepas, ada lagi yang risau sebab tidak dapat jawab soalan laa, takut x menepati criteria jawapan laa...
You know what guys?
Don't worry!! In Syaa Allah... everything will be alright!
Dah berusaha, sekarang masanya untuk bertawakal...
When you are worried, you can't study for the next exam. You will keep on thinking about the previous exam and you will find it hard to concentrate for your next exam.
So here's some tips to bust your worries and fears by Brian Tracy
Langkah 1: Tuliskan apa yang anda risau pada satu kertas. By doing this, you will know what is really bothering you.
Langkah 2: Tuliskan situasi yang paling buruk akan berlaku. Apabila anda berbuat demikian, anda akan mula berasa lega.
Langkah 3: Now accept the worst possible situation that can happen. Katakanlah "Bila situasi begini berlaku, saya akan menerima keadaan ini dengan redha". When you can accept the worst situation, you will feel better and this can help you to think rasionally.
Langkah 4: Bila sudah dapat menerima situasi tersebut, mula rancangkan apa yang anda boleh lakukan sebagai langkah mencegah situasi tersebut berlaku...
I bet some of us will be in exam fever. 7 more days and final starts! So here's something that can motivate us to face the final examination.
I have seen some of my friends, they are unhappy with their academic performance. Most of them could not understand what the course is about, others just gave up because they are forced to be where they are now.
Are you one of them? Then read the quote below...
"It's never too late to Start Over, its never too late to be Happy"
Here's the principles of performance I read in ziglar.com.
You will be what you expect to be
If you wish to be happy, you will be happy. If you decide to be sad then you will be. So if you decide to regret about what had happen in your life, you will keep on regretting it and will never move on. But if you wish to pick yourselves up and face the reality despite your regrets, then you WILL make a major good changes in your life.
"Be the change you wish to see the world" - Gandhi
When you look for something, you will get it
This is when you set your goal. Goal is something you really REALLY want to get. Write down your goal on a piece of paper and stick it on the wall. The first thing you do in the morning and the last thing you do before you go to your bed is to look at the paper and imagine about it.
Practice makes Perfect
Once you have corrected your thoughts and set your goal, you have to start moving to achieve it. If you are weak in maths and wish to get an A for it, then the only way to reach your target is by training and practising.
"The only thing worse than training employees and losing them is to not train them and keep them!" - Ziglar
Plan your move before you promise
One of the key to success is to plan your move. Have a planner with you all the time. And if you are about to make a promise that you will achieve certain task or goal, make sure you plan on how you are going to reach it, otherwise, you will end up breaking the promise.
Be grateful
Last but not least, no matter how tough your situation is, remember to be thankful to God. Challenges you face in your life is meant to make you stronger.
Carbon turns into a Diamond when there is Pressure
You are now a carbon. To turn you into a precious Diamond, you need to face some pressures in your life...
Here's a motivational video to boost your confidence...Enjoy the show
